Oh, love is something you can't describe. On the one hand it seems to be the greatest happiness on this earth, on the other hand we just can't find out its secret. And yet, love is obviously the most important issue of the human brain. 8 out of 10 lyrics that Klaus writes, are about it. This ratio could be transferred at will into any creative output of our lifeworld. Feature films, novels, tv-series, poems, painting, photography, yes, even advertising. Even our food tastes better if it is prepared with a pinch of love.
But why does this matter concern us so much? I have found only one answer to that: because without it we would not survive for long. There would not be any reason for our further earthly existence. Love is a vital basic requirement for our personal happiness.
All clear! So let's embark on the big exploring trip about love!
Let me blabber a bit more. Most people make the mistake to search for happiness outside of themselves. They believe that with some action they will trigger a chain-reaction. Under the motto: when I first move into another city, have the school-leaving qualification in my bag, have left my unhappy relationship, have a new job, have opened an account in flirt-portal, receive the long-desired pony as gift, or when the FC Bayern München has finally won the Champions League again - yes, then everything will be better. Then I will be catapulted directly to happiness.
"The future is nothing but an illusion of our reason. You have to now, in the present, at this moment realize, that the solution to all problems lies in you."
But that's not how the game works. Everything you now find ***, will also in the future stink like garbage. Everything that now is not good for you, will also in the future be bad for you. Do you seriously believe that a house-moving, a school graduation, a pony, or even a new relationship will change something to that? Never ever! The future is nothing but an illusion of our reason [mind]. You have to now, in the present, at this moment realize, that the solution to all problems lies in you.
If you want to change something in your situation, then go to the place where it all starts - to you. Love yourself! This sounds completely stupid, I know, but it's the only way. It is totally logic: how is another person supposed to fall in love with you, when you don't love yourself? That doesn't mean that you should stand in front of the mirror for hours and find yourself damn awesome. What I mean with it is, that you should try to come to harmony with your body, your spirit and your soul.
With love, with life, thus also with you, it goes namely like with a musical instrument. If the strings of the guitar are not perfectly tuned, no beautiful music comes out of it too. All the strength comes from inside. What you feel and everything what you are, you also emit. Do you seriously think, that the cool rocker in the leather jacket will come to sit next to you in the pub, when you send out signals of unhappiness, listlessness and pity? Simply ask yourself: would
you sit next to a person like that? How fun would that conversion possibly be?
Even the biggest pain is not worth you not being happy in the Here and Now. You're sad, because something bad has happened? Then be as sad as you can be. Let it all out! But become on the other side again just as happy. Develop a consciousness for your feelings. A first step is, to just act as if you were happy. Look at your life as a game with the goal: to be happy! You will see that it works.
"you have to give love, to get love"If you yearn for love, affection, and emotional security, then that's exactly what you have to emit. As the saying so nicely goes: "you have to give love, to get love". It's true! The more love, in whatever form you give, the more intensive the feeling of love that you get will be. You will get into an enormously strong circulation, who will always make you rise higher. You become a real love-magnet! From everywhere love will come to you. All you have to do is stretch out your arms and seize. Try it!
True love is the original state of all creatures and the strongest energy in the universe. A state of weightlessness and unlimited freedom. If you love truly, you feel detached from any fear, from your sick reason, which is always demanded from you and for which nothing seems to be good enough. If you love from the bottom of your heart, you find yourself in a stage of absolute bliss, in which you do not need anything external - no money, no television, purely nothing.