GAWD, Diva! And I thought Mr. Havocec was bad. He only plays with sharp, motorized things and blows hisself up once in a while (the firetrucks come to the house once in a while, I pretend I don't know him.)
The iggy thing has disappeared as an option. Another option for the band, if the fighting doesn't stop, is to abolish the forum and just leave the guest book. It seems to work on other sites to keep the squabbling to a minumum. And it may leave more web space for something else, like a hiding place for our hubbies dangerous toys.